A good number of my readers are single Christian men who are looking for a wife. I’ve been married for over ten years, but even back then, finding a girl who was worthy of a wedding ring was a tall order. In an age of blue hair, obesity, rampant promiscuity, weird body art, and irreligion, finding a good girl is sort like the knight in a medieval legend coming upon a unicorn—they exist but they are rare.
Today’s post is a guest post from Andrea, a traditional Catholic wife and mother of five. She uses the unicorn analogy to talk about what it takes to find and win a traditional girl. I enjoyed Andrea’s article because it touches on some of the same points I make in my book, Staying Married in a Degenerate Age.
The overall message is that if you desire a good wife, you shouldn’t expect to live as a player even though that is what the world encourages. Developing strong character is more important than using “game” techniques.
My thanks to Andrea for submitting it. I hope you find it helpful as well.